Relationships

How Can We Stay Civil in the Age of Outrage? Here are Three Ideas

Angry sign by matthew brodeur

Political antagonism is growing across the globe. Some have called this culturally polarised time the ‘age of outrage’. In taking a stand for our chosen cause, we’re losing civility. Here are some ways we can stay civil and respectful in the face of our differences. More…

You’re Both So Different? That Could Be What Makes Your Marriage Work

Couple with Black and White Coffees

After 21 years, I sometimes look at my wife Merryn and wonder how our marriage works. I’m a writer and speaker, Merryn is a statistician. I work with words, she works with numbers. I want beauty, she wants function. And that’s only the start of our differences! Here’s what’s helped us stick together… More…

The Resilient DVD is Here! Watch the First Session Now

Resilient DVD Sheridan Voysey

During a particularly challenging time in my life, I began reading Jesus’ famous Sermon on the Mount in depth. What I found there captured my soul and changed me deeply. The result was ‘Resilient’. You’ve heard about the book and audiobook—now, the DVD. And the first session’s FREE. More…

The Risk Worth Taking (by Christina Hubbard)

In this touching guest post, US writer Christina Hubbard shares her risky experiment of bringing estranged family members together for Christmas at her home. “What I feared was our history of back-handed hurtful comments,” she writes. “As I made preparations, I questioned if opening my home and my heart to this family of strangers would create new rivers of pain.” How did it turn out? Beautifully… More…

Resources for the Christian Couple Facing Infertility

From the day a couple discovers conceiving naturally will be difficult, they are thrown into a complex world of options, opinions and decisions. Is IVF an ethical route to take? Should we foster or adopt? What about donor eggs or sperm, or surrogacy? Here are some resources that may be helpful for you or your friends. More…

041 The 5 Love Languages with Gary Chapman

I recently went to Australia to be with my mother as she started chemotherapy. I went on that trip hoping to provide some practical help, and I did. But my mother really wanted something else. As you’ll hear in this interview with Dr Gary Chapman, the reason why is love languages. And they affect more than just our relationships with others. More…

040 Rethinking Celibacy for the Single Christian

What comes to mind when you think of the word ‘celibacy’? Monks, nuns, robes and rosary beads? The forced lifestyle of the ‘dateless’ or a relic of yesteryear morality? According to author Christine Colon, celibacy isn’t just about sex and singleness isn’t a life stage to be endured until the real thing (marriage) comes along.

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Long-Term Love: When Desire Meets Devotion

A little while back, Fairfax newspapers’ Good Weekend magazine asked this question: ‘Could infidelity save your marriage?’ The shock headline pointed to an excerpt from a new book by a controversial marriage therapist who suggests that a third person—either real or imagined—could re-boost flagging desire in a relationship. More…